It happened yet again over the past few weeks. Another politician, this time the Governor of South Carolina with national and Presidential aspirations, falls morally.
His story was more creative than most: he told his staff and his family he was going away for a few days to relieve his stress, saying he would be “hiking the Appalachian Trail.” He was actually flying to Argentina to see his mistress of many years, for yet another sexual fling, leaving his family unaware of his whereabouts and leaving his state with no idea how to contact him and no one legally really in charge. He might have gotten by with it save that someone recognized him coming off a plane in the Atlanta airport, and it certainly wasn’t arriving from the Appalachian Trail!
We loved the “gotcha” of the story, and the media of course fawned all over themselves for their “investigative journalism” that found out “the truth” and brought down yet another self-righteous and arrogant politician, salivating especially strong on this one because he was yet another “Conservative” Republican with pro-family values. Those are the most “fun” for the media to crucify.
It is true these days that many politicians seemingly can’t keep themselves from moral failure, either ethically or sexually, as the twin allures of greed and lust always stalk the mighty and powerful. Someone recently said to me it was all former President Bill Clinton’s fault. I smiled, thinking about how many centuries these kinds of failures have been done by those in power long before our former President was even thought of!
What seems to me to be the most troubling, however, is the person’s response after being caught. It’s almost unanimous, and nearly 100% in consistency. It usually goes something like this:
“I MADE A MISTAKE.”
Mistake. Fascinating word. It actually means in this form “a fault in understanding, perception, interpretation” or “an idea, answer, act, etc. that is wrong, error.” The clear meaning of the word in this situation is that somehow I couldn’t see or think clearly and based on bad information and did something that now I can see more clearly was not the right thing. Like I was in this massive state of partial information and mental confusion and made poor judgments because of it.
Does that really apply in these situations? Syndicated Columnist Leonard Pitts, a writer whose words often raise my blood pressure because I disagree with him politically, really nailed this recently.
He wrote: “The next time some politician goes before the cameras with his figurative pants down around his metaphoric ankles and says ‘I made a mistake’ let’s form a mob and drag him from the podium. You bring the lanerns, I’ll bring the pitchforks.” And that was only his opening line!
He goes on to say that this “I made a mistake” response allows the offender to “appear to accept responsibility for his offense while at the same time minimizing it. He just misjudged. It just happened. He was just careless, inattentive or forgetful. He couldn’t help it.” Indeed, Pitts continues, the excuse is even less acceptable after President Clinton’s very public and very embarassing moral failure because we have now seen the “fire before” – and to “put your hand into the same fire, that’s not a mistake. That’s an idiotic calculation that, somehow, the rules do not apply to you.”
Amen.
Pitts’ summary, referring to this latest Governor to fall: “I made a mistake? Beg pardon, but what he made was a decision.”
You see, that’s the difference biblical truth makes in our lives. WE have to understand as God’s people that we don’t “make mistakes” when it comes to outright, volitional sinful acts – we COMMIT SIN, DECIDE to be immoral, CHOOSE to do what’s wrong. There is no lack of information or confusion that leads to this: quite the contrary. We are VERY aware of the “fire” this kind of choice creates, because we’ve seen it, read about it, and possibly even done it ourselves before! These are decisions being made, clearly in violation of God’s will and our own conscience, yet we proceed, and the consequences hit us squarely in the face, and we either choose to repent and confess, or deny and press on, only making the noose of our own sinfulness tighter.
Wouldn’t it be refreshing, in the madness of “mistakes” to actually hear someone say:
“I’ve SINNED. I CHOSE to do what was WRONG. I KNEW what I was doing the whole time. I ACCEPT whatever consequences my acts have created. I ASK FORGIVENESS of those I have sinned against, including God, and will make whatever restitutions I need to make.”
Hmmm. That sounds vaguely like a prayer for salvation, doesn’t it? For forgiveness from sins, repentance before Christ and God the Father?
It’s a lot harder than “I made a mistake.” It requires a lot more of a man or woman to say it. But it sure would go a lot further in restoring trust and would make a difference for eternity.
No, I won’t be carrying the lanterns or pitchforks. That’s God’s work. But it sure would sound good to hear it, wouldn’t it?
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackAn older Pastor friend of mine used to always pray to keep him true to his wife and her to him. It seemed funny to me when I was younger as he was “old”. Now, as I am older, I think that this Minster was right.
I have no desire to give the devil more than his due so will admit that we do at times make flawed decisions that legitimately qualify as mistakes for any number of reasons. That said, it would be refreshing to see our politicians step up to the plate and admit to moral failure but we live in Illinois and are justifiably jaded about their apparent lack of any kind of moral center. Perhaps you and I have more impact on our neighbor than the politicians and this needs to start at home.
Of course, I do not approve of the governors actions but will indeed leave the lanterns and pitch forks to God. While the issues and degree may be different, I screw up all the time too.
Hoorah Pastor! Thanks for telling it like it is.
It never ceases to amaze me that Politicians think they are above mortal man and can do what we can and should not. This guy was wrong . . .
Of course it’s wrong to cheat on your wife. It’s wrong to her, it’s wrong for the kids, it’s even wrong for the other woman. And it sets the wrong example for all the voters who elected him in good faith that he would do a good job for them.
But you didn’t get lost down the path of why the media seems to single out the Republican politicians all the time.
For that I’m glad.
I know that Man is frail when it comes to moral convictions. It doesn’t anger me that he’s done this – it saddens me
to see another bite the dust. But it reminds me that there, but for the grace of God, goes I. And rather than throwing stones we better spend our time on our knees begging God to forgive us for those sins that we’ve not been called out for.
Just because others haven’t discovered us doesn’t mean that God’s unaware!
We all have much to ask for God’s forgiveness.
Dear Pastor Ulmet,
I could not have expressed my thoughts as clearly as you. I applaud your thoughts and response to the actions taken by the Govenor
of South Carolina. I am tired and discouraged by many of the politicians , leaders of industry,athletes and people of the media who so greatly infulence the people(esp the youth) of this country. They say they have made a mistake , they take on no responsibity for their actions and fail to accept any consequences for their actions nor do we have their assurance that they will not repeat their mistakes again????? But what is truely becomming discouaging is the publics response!
It seems like we have forgotten how to difine sin. It seem like to most people the sin is in getting caught.
I am so glad you addressed this in your blog. You hit the nail on the head.
I am so tired of people using “mistake”, “accident” or “experiment” when they choose to do objectionable acts. For instance, many time politicians use the phrase experimented with drugs. Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary defines experiment as “A trial or special observation, made to confirm or disprove something doubtful; esp., one under conditions determined by the experimenter; an act or operation undertaken in order to discover some unknown principle or effect, or to test, establish, or illustrate some suggest or known truth; practical test; poof.” Bill Clinton and every politician since have stated that they experimented with drugs while in high school or college. I doubt they performed these “experiments” in a controlled environment documenting the effects of the drug usage. But no one called out the politicians on this. The media just accepts this explanation as appropriate.
Look I have sinned and will continue to sin. But I acknowledged these sins as my responsibility. The more I attend church and read the bible the more Jiminy Cricket sits on my shoulder to remind me the right path to choose. I am tired of the blame game and denying responsibility that everyone, not just politicians operate under these days. I remember hearing about Jimmy Carter’s interview in Playboy where he stated he lusted after women. He was honest. As far as we know, he never chose to act on these lustful thoughts. I have said to all my nieces and other females I know to understand that all men are pigs. Some are cute little piglets, i.e. they look at women and appreciate their beauty without lusting and some are big ole wild boars, i.e. look, lust, act out and continue to do so without remorse. This does not condone the behavior but acts as a warning to beware of the men they come across in life since they need to understand that men have these thoughts and some choose to act on them. And I will be honest I have had similar thoughts as former president Jimmy Carter and I like him I have not acted on them. Why because I am married and love and respect my wife and family to ever hurt them in that way. And it is wrong. I have said to my wife before that I would never do this to her and the kids. God forbid our relationship would deteriorate to the point where I would choose to want to act this way, I would divorce her first. But since I do not believe in divorce, for personal reasons more than spiritual, I would never let this happen. I would choose to use a marriage counselor and pastors to work things out. Plus the more we attend church, read the bible the more I have fallen in love with my wife. When ever I do not attend or read the bible, it seems that I can see my relationship with her suffer. This may sound strange, I know it does to me at times, but is the truth. Additionally, since attending your church and reading the bible my thoughts have turned from lust to appreciation more and more.
I would like more public figures to be honest. I, like most people I think, would rather hear the truth even if I do not agree with it rather than be misled. This is not just a “Christian” thing. This is a moral thing for people of all faiths and those that believe there is no God. However Christian or not, the one thing I have learned and I believe everyone can learn whether they believe in God or not, is that there are wonderful instructions in the bible as to how to live a decent and respectable life.
God bless you and your wonderful staff for continuing the work of God and spreading the word
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